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The story behind the work

This Did Not Begin
as a Business Plan.

I did not build this framework despite what happened to me. I built it because of it. Every connection inside PCI answers a gap I once had to live through.

I did not begin with a government title or a polished blueprint. I began as a South Jersey student who knew what it felt like to be misunderstood, an educator who watched the same gaps reach new children, and a person who finally stopped waiting for someone else to ask why.

L.R.W. FOUNDER & EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR

How it started

I Knew the Wrong Side
of the System First.

I grew up in South Jersey with dyslexia and a learning delay. When my school did not know what to do with me, I was placed in a contained special-education classroom that was never supposed to become a long-term answer.

While I was there, the bullying started. It followed me through school and online, at the same moment social media was becoming part of young people’s daily lives. My family reported it repeatedly. The school dismissed it repeatedly. Eventually, my family did what many families cannot afford to do: we found a lawyer and pursued legal action because every other door had closed.

Later, I became a homebound student and could no longer see a path back to graduation. Ms. Watson, my homebound teacher, helped me find it. She encouraged me to walk, believed I belonged in that moment, and even walked beside me for part of it.

She showed me what one deeply invested adult can change. My experience also showed me why a child’s protection cannot depend on finding that adult by luck—or on whether their family can afford legal help.

“Care should never depend on luck, and protection should never depend on whether a family can afford to fight.”

From experience to action

The Path to PCI.

The contained classroom that held some of my hardest years also held remarkable teachers. They saw me, trusted me, and let me work alongside them with children whose needs were more complex than mine. I understood what it felt like to be discussed instead of included, and I discovered that I knew how to show up differently for those students.

I returned to schools on purpose and spent five years working in South Jersey classrooms—two years in general education and three in special education. I watched gifted, caring teachers work inside impossible conditions. I also watched families encounter the same dismissals and closed doors my own family had faced. Outside school hours, I helped parents understand IEP processes and sat with young people who wanted to speak with someone who had survived what they were experiencing.

I hold two degrees from American Military University: an Associate of Science in Counterterrorism, completed in December 2025, and a Bachelor of Science in Intelligence Studies with a concentration in Criminal Intelligence, completed in October 2026. I chose these fields to understand prevention, decision-making under uncertainty, the movement of information, and the systems that must exist before an emergency—not merely after one.

Those experiences taught me that school safety is not only physical security. It is belonging, communication, mental-health support, accessible reporting, family trust, accountable handoffs, careful intervention, and continuing recovery. PCI is where those lessons finally became one connected framework.

01Lived Experience

Learning early what happens when bullying, disability, family reports, and responsibility do not connect.

02Five Years in Schools

Two years in general education and three in special education, working with students and educators across South Jersey.

03Family & Student Advocacy

Helping families understand IEP processes and showing up for young people who needed someone who understood.

04A.S. in Counterterrorism

Earned from American Military University in December 2025, with a focus on prevention and preparedness.

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05B.S. in Intelligence Studies

Earned from American Military University in October 2026, with a concentration in Criminal Intelligence.

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06The Pink Cabinet Initiative

Connecting care, prevention, response, accountability, recovery, and partnership around the whole child.

DECEMBER 2025

The Morning the Question Would Not Leave.

On a cold December morning, I was sitting with my coffee when another school tragedy appeared in the news. I remember thinking: when does this stop, and when does someone finally do something different?

Then I realized I already understood part of the answer. I had lived inside the gaps as a student, worked inside them as an educator, and watched families try to navigate them alone. I sent a formal letter to the U.S. Department of Education because those questions deserved more than another private moment of frustration.

The letter became deeper research. The research became a seven-pillar framework. The framework became a New Jersey nonprofit—and the question became a responsibility I was no longer willing to put down.

Why the Pink Cabinet

The Name Holds
the Whole Idea.

PCI’s name is not decoration. It explains both what school safety should feel like and how the framework is meant to function.

01 · PINK

Care With Backbone

Pink represents real, sustained, stubborn care for children—the kind people sometimes mistake for softness, even though continuing to care when a system pushes back can be one of the hardest things there is.

02 · CABINET

Different Roles, Shared Accountability

A cabinet is not one program or one voice. Each pillar has a responsibility, each partner brings expertise, and the system only works when those parts communicate instead of operating in isolation.

And then there is the Latina fire behind it: the part of me that was told the system had done all it could—and refused to believe that was the end of the answer.

What happened when I started asking out loud

The Answer Kept Coming Back:
Keep Going.

I began bringing PCI to people who understand different parts of the problem: educators, school leaders, law enforcement and public-safety professionals, mental-health leaders, emergency managers, attorneys, policymakers, foundations, advocates, and community partners.

They have challenged assumptions, identified gaps I had not seen, shared resources, introduced me to people I had never contacted, and helped make the framework stronger. Across professions and political perspectives, the message at the end of these conversations has been remarkably consistent: this is needed—keep going.

This is the broad view. Individual conversations, replies, meetings, and milestones belong on PCI’s News page.

01School Leaders

Public, private, charter, faith-based, and specialized education communities.

02Law Enforcement & Public Safety

Police, school safety, security, and prevention-focused professionals.

03Government & Policy

Local, state, and federal offices across political perspectives.

04Mental Health & Student Support

Professionals and organizations focused on wellness, intervention, and care.

05Legal & Advocacy Voices

Attorneys, advocates, and organizations working around rights and accountability.

06Community & National Partners

Nonprofits, foundations, creators, educators, and national school-safety voices.

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Where PCI is now

I Am Asking for the Chance
to Build It With a School.

PCI is preparing for a focused school pilot built with—not imposed on—a school community. The goal is to map what already exists, find where responsibility or access breaks down, strengthen the connections between systems, and learn honestly from implementation.

I am not asking schools to discard the work they have already done. I am asking for the opportunity to help the people, policies, resources, and relationships already surrounding students work as one accountable village.

I will continue listening, learning, and asking better questions. The mission is serious, the approach is human, and the commitment is unwavering.

Lulabelle R. WaxmanFounder & Executive Director
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